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Relationships are one of the most important aspects of our lives, yet we can often forget just how crucial our connections with other people are for our physical and mental health and wellbeing. People who are more socially connected to family, friends, or their community are happier, physically healthier and live longer, with fewer mental health problems than people who are less well connected. Living in conflict or within a toxic relationship is more damaging than being alone.

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Living vicariously through the drama-filled days and nights of reality stars on shows like "Vanderpump Rules," "The Bachelor" and "Southern Charm" is a large part of the draw to tune in week after week. But if you take a closer look at the main male characters like Jax Taylor and Thomas Ravenel who drive these story lines, there's a specific behavior pattern that adds to the drama; one you may have experienced more subtly in your own relationships. Peter Pan Syndrome — when grown men avoid the personal and professional responsibilities of adulthood — isn't recognized as a psychological disorder, but it can explain a certain pattern of behavior. While these reality TV stars may be extreme examples: egotistical, rampant narcissists who struggle with the mere concept of commitment and avoid grown up responsibilities at all costs, Carla Marie Manlya clinical psychologist based in California, says it's a real, fairly common dilemma — one you can easily fall for if you're not careful. These qualities have been kryptonite for many of reality TV's leading ladies. These love-to-hate-them reality stars all exhibit typical behavior patterns of someone who fits the "Peter Pan" mold.

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Unavailability fuels the romantic expression. At some point I grew up and learned to let go of the crazy metaphor of romantic love in order to find true happiness. This happiness usually includes the desire to be close to someone in a loving way. Let go of expectations. At some point in our lives, we may believe that love should be like the kind of romance we see portrayed in films, television, and novels. So then, how do we make relationships work and stay happy?

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The key is to see the other as a mirror and learn from the reflection how you can be a better person. The romantic love fantasy is really a substitute for intimacy—real, connected, vulnerable intimacy. Here are 10 ways to create true intimacy, find pure love, and be truly happy in your relationship: 1. See Lonely in Portland Maine cuddle body needed partner for who he or she really is.

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Use relationships to teach you how to be whole within. True love only exists by loving yourself first.