Quick Warning: This tutorial video will teach you how to make your girl scream with pleasure and become sexually addicted to you. Before we jump, I want to quickly cover the groundwork that will make it far easier for you to make her squirt on a regular basis. You can skip straight to the techniques by clicking herebut I strongly advise you to read this Squirting Guide from start to finish if you want to become a true squirting master. Some people confuse squirting with pee, and feeling like she is going to pee makes many women feel uncomfortable.
Not only is comfort vital to make a girl squirt, but if she thinks she might pee, your partner might tense her muscles and activity prevent herself from squirting. Unlike peeing, squirting is an involuntary reaction to G-spot stimulation.
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Squirting is often — but not always [ 1 ] — a result of G-spot orgasm. Squirting and pee are similar in that the fluid is ejected from the same place, her urethra. For some women, the amount of liquid is much larger, and it includes liquid stored in the bladder.
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Her G Spot is going to be the most important part of her vagina when learning to make your girlfriend squirt. To be clear, this the side closest to her belly button. Locating it is the first step to master how to make her squirt. So to find it with your fingers, you will insert one lubed finger inside her vagina, and slide the pad of your finger where your fingerprint is along the upper wall.
Her G Spot will be between inches deep inside [ 6 ].
Her squirting anatomy
Important: The G Spot is easier to find when she is aroused. Everyone thinks that to make her squirt, you need to perfect your fingering technique. These include things like:. If your girl is experiencing any of these issues, then she is going to obviously find it difficult to fully relax, let go and squirt. But, if you follow my advice in the guide to turning her onyou will be able to remove these Brakes to her sex drive.
Once you have removed these Brakes, then the only other issue that may prevent her from squirting is that you may not have used any Accelerators to her sex drive to make her aroused and horny. I cover the steps on how to intensify the Accelerators to her sex drive in the guide to make her horny. This guide will give and in-depth explanation and instructions on what you can do to make her crazy horny for you.
Once you can reliably turn her on and have removed the Brakes, while increasing the Accelerators, making her squirt comes down to using the right technique, which is surprisingly simple….
1. get your bed ready just in case.
This goes without saying, but the last thing you want to do is put a sharp object that might nick or cut her vagina. So make sure to trim AND file your fingernails. Trimming them is NOT enough. You can also exfoliate and use lotion, so your hands will be baby smooth.
Ideally, she should be wet enough that you can coat your finger with her natural wetness before penetrating her. If not, try licking your finger. The last option is to use lube.
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Gently stroke the area with your middle finger and see how she responds. After doing this for up to a minute, slowly pull out your middle finger. As you slide your index and middle fingers inside her, it should look like the illustration above, with your fingers curled slightly around her pubic bone, so they are providing pressure to her G Spot area. Extend them to reach a little deeper and then curl them back up to bring them to a shallower point in her vagina.
When doing this make sure to run your fingertips along the top wall of her vaginal canal. Here is a bunch of different techniques, try them all and then focus your efforts on the ones that work best for you and your girl. Experiment and vary how much pressure you apply and the speed at which you do it. Lightly pressing can be enough for some women, while others need intense pressure.
Rubbing her G Spot in a circular motion while maintaining lots of pressure on your fingertip is another option.
Again, for some women, this is enough to make them squirt, but for others, it merely feels nice and is not enough to make them explode. Again, make sure to experiment with the amount of pressure you apply and with the exact location of where you apply the pressure. As you curl your fingers, you should be applying lots of pressure to her G Spot. As you start curling them again, start to apply more pressure. For many women, this is more than enough to make them squirt. However, there are two issues that sometimes arise from each of these three techniques:.
The Arm Shaker shares much in common with the above three techniques, with a few important differences.
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Instead of using your fingers and hand to provide stimulation, you are going to use your entire arm. First, you need to keep your fingers firmly in place, with the tips pressed against her G Spot. Then you need to start using your entire arm to provide pressure to her G Spot, a lot more pressure than ly. Do this by keeping your arm quite stiff while trying to raise and lower it rapidly. As your fingers are pressed against her G Spot, you will be able to provide massive amounts of pressure to it. This is almost guaranteed to make her squirt.
Then you can have her apply downward pressure to her Mons Pubis, like in the illustration above…or you can use your spare hand to do it yourself. Applying pressure like this has the effect of gently squeezing her G Spot further into her vagina, allowing you to provide more pressure.
Otherwise, you will be putting a lot of pressure on her bladder, which will make her feel like peeing, taking her out of the moment.
With one hand, you will be using some of the techniques I described above for rubbing her clit while using your other hand to penetrate her and massage her G Spot. Check out the guide on how to finger your girl for some tips on how to pleasurably rub and stimulate her clit. If one of your hands is pressing on her mons, have her rub her clitoris while you stroke her G-spot. When she plays with her own clit, you can experiment with a wider variety of positions, some of which may be more comfortable for you or allows you to stimulate her G-spot for longer.
Check out these 9 clitoral stimulation techniques for more ideas. If you find that your girl enjoys squirting and you want to try new ways to do it, then using sex toys is the perfect option. Dildos and penis shaped vibrators can work great, but keep an eye out for purpose made G Spot vibrators and dildos that will make stimulating her G Spot and making her squirt super easy. These toys have curved or contoured he that are deed specifically for G-spot stimulation and do most of the work for you.
Your girl will know what works best for her, so make sure to talk to her and get her feedback.
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If your partner can squirt easily when you are fingering her more fingering techniquesand you both enjoy it, then it only makes sense to try making her squirt during sex. All the same preparation advice for making her squirt during sex applies here, so make sure you have removed the Brakes to her sex drive and intensified the Accelerators to make her crazy horny. Then, all you need to worry about is what position you penetrate her at.
Now is not the time to worry about lasting longerjust focus on the position you use. In the illustration below, you can see an exaggerated, and more extreme angle that, hypothetically, would provide even more stimulation to her G Spot as the head of you penis slides over it with every stroke. Of course, such an extreme position would be almost impossible and may actually feel more like you are painfully poking it.
I wanted to include it as you need to experiment with the angle that works best for HER remember, you need to get her feedback on what works best! You really only need to penetrate inches deep to stroke her G Spot and make her squirt, making it possible for even the least endowed guys.
One important point to note on making your girl squirt during sex is that if she has trouble squirting when you are fingering her, she is going to find it almost impossible to do it during sex. My advice would be to first focus your attention on getting her to reliably squirt using the techniques above before you get too concerned about whether she squirts or not during sex.
She might also have an easier time if she learns how to squirt on her own. In the Sex Position Guideyou are going to find over different sex positions to try out with your girl.
But not every position is going to help to make your girl squirt. The key to making these G Spot positions work is by adapting them to fit your own sex life and preferences. You and your partner likely have body dimensions that are different to the demonstrations below and the same goes for your preferences. Following my advice on positions blindly or any of my sex advice for that matter is a recipe for mediocre sex. The key is adapting it to what works for you. More information on the G Spot position. Launch Pad Position — This position is great as it gives your girl a lot of control over how deep you penetrate her.
How to make a girl squirt: step by step
She can simply push you back with her feet if you are too deep or relax her legs so you can penetrate deeper. Remember, you only need to penetrate the first inches to stimulate her G Spot and make her squirt. The more you lean backward in the Launch Pad position, the more intense and direct your G Spot stimulation will be.
Learn more about the Launch Pad position.
2. try to relax, and give yourself plenty of time to get turned on.
This way she can control the depth, speed, and pressure on her G Spot more. Learn more about the Pearly Gates position. Learn more about the Bouncing Spoon Sex Position. Crab Sex Position — Realistically the Crab position is almost identical to Cowgirl, except she will be leaning backward and supporting herself with her hands behind her. Just like the two positions, during the Crab, she can take a lot of control, but if she likes, you can also do some thrusting in the Crab sex position.
The only caveat to Spooning is that unfortunately, not every girl will feel her G Spot getting stimulated during it. My advice: Try it for yourself and see. Learn more about the Spooning sex position. Your girl will be lying down on her stomach, and you will be straddling her. In this position, you can stimulate her G Spot slightly by simply thrusting, but there is a better way….